Have you ever wondered what’s serving you—and what’s not—in the way you date? From our years of interacting with thousands of daters through our podcast, courses, programs, and communities, we’ve been able to identify the five prominent archetypes among modern daters. Each dating style has parts that make them incredibly dateable—and other parts that hold them back.

Most of us exhibit a little bit of every style, but you’ll see that some may be more or less dominant for you. By understanding your most prominent dating archetype (fun fact: most of us have one or two leading ones), you’ll be able to go through our upcoming book 'How to Be Dateable'with a better understanding of how you can lean into your core strengths and, more importantly, how you can get out of your own way.