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The essential guide to navigating modern dating and finding your person — from Dateable hosts Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu.
Does dating feel like an endless maze with no way out?
Find your person and become your most dateable self with this actionable, compassionate guide that will help you break free from the traps of modern dating and change your approach to love.
As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast Dateable, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu have made breaking down the nuances of the ever-evolving dating world, and empowering the people within it, their purpose and passion. Drawing on a decade’s worth of research from speaking to thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, Julie and Yue have learned what it takes to find love in today’s dating world. They’ll show you how to take control of your love life and focus on the levers that actually get you results.
Starting with a personalized dating archetypes quiz, you’ll come away with a richer understanding of your core dating strengths and how to turn around the obstacles that are keeping you from meeting the right people. You will discover how to:
- Feel less drained and more optimistic about finding love
- Choose better partners who are more aligned with your values
- Prioritize what’s in your control, and release what’s not
- Date your way to find the right relationship for you
Written with the knowledge of experts and the warmth of a wise best friend, How to Be Dateable will give you a dating life that can ultimately help you find the I-can’t-believe- this-was-possible type of relationship you deserve.
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Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
Julie and Yue are active daters turned dating insiders, and the hosts of the hit podcast Dateable. Together they wrote How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling In Love (Simon & Schuster). Yue & Julie will quickly become your go-to-dating besties where you can laugh, reflect, and talk about dating in a way that feels real. They’ll give you the most in-depth and unfiltered exploration of modern dating, so you can navigate all the ups and downs of not just finding any relationship – but one that’s right for you.
Follow them on Instagram @dateablepodcast, and tune in to their podcast, Dateable, for unique insights, actionable advice, honest takes, and so much more. Because we believe everyone is dateable, and it’s only matter of when – not if – you’ll find your person.
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After a year of online dating I was ready to throw in the towel. Then I got a new perspective from Datable and began to be more intentional with my messaging and gained the confidence to lead with vulnerability. I started asking questions like “what have you learned about yourself in the last 10 years?” Instead of “do you like hiking?” and the variety in responses made it so clear who was and wasn’t worth investing in, and also helped me stand out and make deeper connections. I couldn’t be happier with the deep connection I have formed with them. Thanks!!!
I’ve listened to many dating & relationship podcasts over the years. As a 35 year old woman, I wish I found this podcast earlier in my dating journey. I’m in a LTR now and I find Julie & Yue’s insight so humble and honest. I’ve found other hosts hard to relate to in terms of age or mindset around dating, and I really appreciate their unpretentious and authentic feedback. They feel like the kind of podcast hosts you can actually envision getting a meal with and laughing the night away.
These two gals are hilarious and an amazing resource for learning and perspective when it comes to dating, life, meeting people… I look forward to listening to every episode!I I am reminded of why I’m dating the first place, what I want out of it, and how I want to show up when I’m in it. It’s been incredibly supportive over the past year for me personally as I’ve been on and off dating apps; their perspective has brought me back from the feelings of frustration and has brought back the excitement and joy that can come from meeting new people.
I’ve been listening to this podcast for over a year now and it’s completely changed the way I view dating and relationships. I appreciate all your insights and the guests that you bring on. I love learning about different dating perspectives and challenging my own biases around relationships. Dating used to be so daunting and there was always a sense of dread around going on dates. I would settle for people that weren’t aligned with me, but because of this podcast, I feel so more at peace with myself and confident in the qualities I’m looking for in a partner.
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After years of dating, I finally met my girlfriend in a grocery store of all places! I truly could not have gotten this far without Julie & Yue’s help. They gave me the confidence to approach more people IRL and helped me learn how to build connection and rapport in these interactions. I’d probably be lost without you all but now I’m in a happy relationship!
After 5 years of being single, I'm officially off the market! I met someone I would have never swiped on before – in fact, I was adamantly anti-apps for years. But after using a lot of the advice from Dateable, I decided to listen to my gut when swiping right. And I couldn't be happier. Month later, I'm with a man who fulfills my needs and is everything I've ever asked for.
When I first turned to Dateable, I felt completely burnt out with dating. I had just gotten ghosted after a 12-hour phone "date.' Once I started shifting the way I approached dating with Yue & Julie's guidance, I started getting into more relationships – including the one I'm happily in now! Dateable has been a game-changer to the way I love others – and myself!
I came to Dateable because I felt behind because I hadn't been in a relationship before. Julie & Yue helped me see that this was 1) totally normal and 2) helped me gain the skills and confidence to not only enter my first real relationship – but also recognize when it wasn't meeting my needs and working for me. I truly feel like a more confident dater ready to take on the dating world.
