Playlist: Finding The One

Episodes that inspire and gain perspective on the necessary self growth and mindset to be relationship ready.

Season 4 Episode 17: My Journey to be a Better Man

Dave tells us about his evolution from being a serial dater to an engaged, one woman man. We discuss becoming the best version of yourself, how that correlates to attracting the right type of partner, really being ready, and the importance of each step along the way.

Season 4 Episode 16: Why you cannot find the one

Writer Heidi Isern tells us why you cannot find 'the one” – and why hunting for that perfect person is just too much pressure. We talk about how to navigate in a mirage of endless options, what it means to ‘settle’, and the importance of staying open.

Season 4 Episode 8: Love in the air(bnb)

Li and Chris tell us how they met through Airbnb when Chris visited SF from Germany. We talk about their whirlwind romance that lead to marriage, the importance of timing, overcoming challenges of distance, and the power of committing to make it work.

Season 2 Episode 15: Love, Sex, and Burning Man

Matteson, author of Available: A Memoir of Heartbreak, Hookups, Love and Brunch, tells us about his plan to be single for year and casually date tons women. We discuss how this leads to true love and self-discovery. And of course, Burning Man.

Season 3 Episode 1: You are someone I just have to meet

Spencer and Carolyn tell us the story about how they met IRL and became a pretty instant couple. We talk about what attracted them to one another, the progression to an actual relationship, and how when it just works it works.

Season 2 Episode 8: Hey Heartbreak

Our special guest Ellen talks to us about the most painful part of relationships: heartbreak. She knows all about this topic as the founder of Mend. We talk about it all from timing in relationships, the healing process, and how to come out stronger.

Season 4 Episode 14: Going with the Flo

Flo and Dylan tell us about their relationship that was anything but love at first sight when they met at a silent disco. We discuss meeting when the time is right, deviating from your “type”, giving relationships time, and how to know if there’s a connection.

Season 2 Episode 16: A Beautiful Breakup

Julieann tells us about a serendipitous love story that becomes her most life changing relationship despite ending in a breakup. We discuss relationships as our biggest teachers and how forever doesn’t always signify success in relationships.

Season 3 Episode 17: Against the rules

Kate and Boris tell us how they ditched all the dating rules - including Kate being on JDate as a non-jew - and found true love. We discuss exchanging messages to being engaged and all the defining moments along the way.


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