Playlist: Ghosting, Flaking, and other dating downfalls

Hear from others on the all to relatable pain points of modern dating and how to deal with these situations.

Season 2 Episode 3: 2 year ghost

Katie tells us about a guy she dated for 2 months that ghosted after a crazy adventure trip. And then he returned 2 years later only to ghost again! We discuss the reasons someone may flake, how to deal, and the reality that you never know the full story.

Season 2 Episode 4: Are we asking too much of Tinder?

Sam talks about a Tinder date gone wrong after a stand up and group date to his date’s DJ show. We talk about expectations, vetting, and commitment to meet someone via a dating app. Also Yue spills about her Tinder test from the Season 1 finale.

Season 1 Episode 7: Don't Molly and Date

Yue spills about her dating experience that moved a little too fast. We get into conversations about how to handle when people ghost and are non-committal to plans.

Season 4 Episode 9: Young, Broke & Beautiful

Stuart aka Broke-Ass Stuart shares what it’s like to date as an ‘SF Cult hero” in a city where you’re bound to run into an ex or two. We talk about breaking up with dignity, the issues with ghosting in a city so small, and how to date when you’re broke in a place like SF.

Season 4 Episode 5: The Bathroom Bail

Melissa talks about her date’s ultimate disappearing act — while they were out on an actual date. We discuss the importance of communication, who should pay for the date, how your mood can impact the entire night, and being respectful even if it isn’t a match.

Season 3 Episode 14: Dating Fatigue

Andrew tells us about his many dates over the last 8 years in SF, where not even one has turned into a real relationship. We talk about how technology has made us pass quicker, judge faster (thanks, google and social media), and how to thrive through it all.

Season 1 Episode 4: The $600 Dinner

Sasha talks about getting stood up for a date and how she benefited from this later. We also talk about standing up for yourself, asking for what you deserve, and being honest in dating.

Season 2 Episode 11: Mr. Marina

Mark (aka Mr. Marina 2016) talks his best and worst dates ever. We talk about respecting others time, the importance of a raw connection, and dating as the bro of all bros. Lesson learned: Marina Bros are date/able too.

Season 1 Episode 9: Are we or aren't we?

Jessica tells us about her bro that would never commit. We talk about setting the precedent of how you want to be treated and how you can learn from situations like these.

Season 5 Episode 1: The Secret to Dating in Modern Times

Ned drops the secret of dating successfully in a city where our attention is scattered and options are plentiful. We discuss the impact of technology, urban elite cities, and how to navigate through it all to find something real.

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